I try not to judge but sometimes I admit that it is hard not to when so many people have tried to screw me other with lies, bitching and general unpleasantness. To be honest if you judge before you know someone I have found I usually have the initial wrong impression. I like to wait and form my opinions over time. My friends can cause trouble and some have in the past. I have had 'words' with some friends and hope they have learnt their lessons. Good question BTW though I hope I am not thought as 'judgemental'.